(one) the first

Posted on by shaunaschlender

Hello Beautiful Friends,

This is the very first post I am writing for my blog – gingham and grace. Let me explain…

I have been throwing around the idea of starting a blog for some time now. First, I thought it might be a blog about breast cancer, or cancer treatment. But, I felt that I had much more to talk about than just DBC (damn breast cancer!). DBC brought me to my knees, traumatized me and changed me into a person I hardly recognize. One cool thing is, as I slowly rise up, shaking off the dust of trauma, I am finding myself face to face with a “new me”. People expect me to be different. I am different. I’ve noticed that some of the changes in me are deep and apparent, others are manifesting slowly as I gain strength and stability.

So, I decided to write a blog that is fueled by my new, post DBC self. One that focuses on the improved lifestyle I seek to lead. Now that my world has become less about cancer and doctors and physical limitations, I am spending all my time researching diet, nutrition, health and wellness goals. I am so interested in safe cleaning and beauty alternatives, the latest research in this industry, and the companies that are putting themselves out there in the name of SAFE and RESPONSIBLE products.

And… some things never change 😉 I am still a lover of all things pretty and frilly and lovely and nice. My hope is that this blog will give me a chance to share all of the great products I find in home, style, beauty and food as well.

I have a lot to say. Cancer brings wisdom –  a kind of quiet wisdom that no one really wants to go through to get. It changes your perspective on life in general but mostly it changes you in the small moments of ordinary days. I live for them. I live for the sunshine warming my skin, breathing in fresh air, taking my daughter for a bike ride to the beach, cleaning the fruit and veggies I just bought at the farmer’s market. These are the moments I close my eyes and thank God. Cancer gave me that. I had to fight DBC to gain this mindfulness, but now I have it and I want to share it with all of you.

So, the name! Gingham is a timeless fabric – being all at once utterly American and redolent of the South of France. It’s sweet, simple and sometimes extraordinary – my ideal lifestyle mantra. Grace is a biggie. Grace is the unmerited love and favor of God toward human beings; a special virtue, gift, or help given to a person by God. I am alive today by the Grace of God, we all are. Our lives here on earth are a gift from Him – meant to be enjoyed, filled with passion and spent uplifting others. Our focus is too easily shifted and caught up in earthly concerns, that’s the price we pay for being human and sinful. Thankfully, God’s grace is always present, always available.

I hope you join me on this blogging journey! So many have walked with me through my cancer experience, so faithful and steadfast. I am hopeful and excited for the next chapter xoxo

28 thoughts on “(one) the first”

  2. I am in awe my dear…. I can’t seem to compile my thoughts and convey them in a manor that would express them properly.

    Your journey has been one of courage, fear, strength … and yes- wonderful, amazing grace!! Looking forward to see where His mighty hand leads you next!! All our love!! xoxo

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  4. You simply amaze me with your strength and positive attitude. You inspire me and many people who know you. I am proud to know and love you, Brett and Coco! Thanks for the opportunity to go on this journey with you. It’s been a wonderful trip!❣😘❣😘❣

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  6. You are an inspiration to me and others. I am so proud of you on how you have handled all of these trying times. You, Brett and Coco will always be in my heart!❤️❣❤️❣❤️❣❤️

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  7. Sweet Shauna you have such a beautiful way with words! I too have been changing my foods, cleaning products and makeup/skincare. So many toxins in everything today! I am looking forward to more of your blogs!!!

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  10. Congratulations on the start of your blog! I have been blessed to walk beside you in your journey! This blog is a wonderful way to share that journey and your life with others! I see Christ in your love and courage…Thank you for letting your light shine!

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  13. Shauna- you already brought tears to my eyes! You are an inspiration to all of us. No one will ever understand how one person can change the lives of so many but you have done so and will continue to do so with this blog. I look forward to reading your future posts and until then, will continue to slow down and enjoy the simple things that are in this life to enjoy. ❤

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  15. I am a 20 year survivor and friend of Veronica McMahon’s. I still have my “moments” but have come a long way. What a journey…God is my strength and has been very good to me.

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  16. Beautiful, inspiring, and full of hope that so many people need. Thank you for sharing. You have always had a gift with your words and writing, and I believe this talent and your willingness to share your experiences and journey will reach many people who will benefit from your wisdom. Hugs!

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  19. So beautiful & we’ll done! Can relate to really SEEING God’s beauty in all things! Told Him this morning, “you paint beautiful colors” while looking at my newly bloomed lillies! Thanks for the insite!

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  23. What an amazing blog!!! Looking forward to seeing you grow stronger and share with us the gifts in life. Thank you for being such an admirable woman! Love you and looking forward to the post DBC journey!

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  24. Brought tears to my eyes this was so beautifully written, I’m so thankful to have such a wonderful person like you in my life Shauna. You are truly amazing!

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  25. When you put your thoughts into words it translates with such eligance. What a great outlet you have created to share who you are. Sending lots of love!

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  27. Dear Shauna
    Thanks for setting up this blog of Gingham and Grace! You are an amazing writer, the years of training as an English major in university and God’s journey has certainly made you into the beautiful person you are inside and out. We love you and look forward to sharing in your journey of post DBC. New beginnings, new seasons…that is how life unfolds. Cheers Aunt Linda

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